The 40-year old virgin?

I think I may have figured out Cincinnati*.

I don't think he's ever had sex. 

The more I look at his social media - who and what he "likes" - the more I think this is true.  And the only time I asked him if he'd had a girlfriend before, he said "One". It appeared as if he did not want to discuss it, so I didn't press him. 

This is really sad, but doesn't excuse what I feel has been cruel and cowardly behavior on his part. But as I've said before, cruelty and cowardice are closely related. You rarely if ever encounter one without the other.

His social media is vaguely narcissistic, but this isn't unusual. But it's all photos of him cycling, or of his cycling pals, or with his family. He also photographs his meals now and again and puts them online, which I've always considered strange. Can anyone explain this to me?

Yesterday I decided to never contact him again, even though he read my previous emails within minutes of my sending them. But I don't think he's opening my emails asap because he cares for me in a romantic fashion. Instead, I am guessing he fears I'm angry at him and planning some retribution. Which I'm not. 

* see The Usual Suspects.